Hugs & Hummingbirds July 2011 to Funeral Blues Sep 2023

"And I finally see how your love is the best of me..." ~ "Til You're Home" lyrics added 6/11/23
Bright summer day in July 2011
"Cutting into the secret chamber of your heart and setting the sadness free." p. 266
"Desire kicked in when it pleased without noticing the rules we lived and died by." ~ Secret Life Of Bees p. 126 
"Envied turtles in their shells how they could disappear at will." p. 125 Secret Life Of Bees [However, see "T" below]

 Source 
Gratitude: "Get up from there and live like the Glorious [person] you are." p. 289 and "Guardian Angles" by the Judds listen here
He was my North, my South, my East and West / My working week and my Sunday rest / My noon, my midnight, my talk, my song / I thought that love would last forever; I was wrong." ~ W.H. Auden
"I loved him enough," she said, "I just loved my freedom more." ~ Secret Life Of Bees p. 146
"Joy: Jesus, Others, Yourself,  in that order" ~ Secret Life Of Bees p. 162
 "Lifting a person's heart -- now that matters." p. 147
Mom and I went for a swim at Wayland's! 9/22/23
"Nurse bees ... had a gift for nuturing and they fed all the baby bees... Nest builders had true math aptitude." 147-8
"Only purpose grand enough for a human life: Not just to love - but to persist in love." p. 289
Precious time on earth : "People can start out one way, and by the time life gets through with them they end up completely different..." Secret Life Of Bees  p. 293
"Queenlessness: The queen, for her part, is the unifying force of the community; if she is...
Removed from the hive, the workers very quickly sense her absence.  After a few hours, or even less, the show unmistakable signs of queenlessness." ~ Man and Insects by L.H. Newman
"Stop all the clocks, cut off the telephone / Prevent the dog from barking with a juicy bone / Silence the pianos and with muffled drum...let the mourners come ...  Put crepe bows round the white necks of public doves /Let the traffic policemen wear black cotton gloves... Pack up the moon and dismantle the sun / Pour away the ocean and sweep up the wood / For nothing now can ever come to any good." ~ W.H. Auden
"Teach me how to do that. Teach me how to take this all in." p. 244 Secret Life Of Bees
"... Utterly overwhelming impact the death of a loved one has. It asks, how can anything, or anyone, possibly continue to exist? From the point of view of the bereaved person, the world, and everything in it, should immediately stop. Or at least, have the decency to go into mourning." Source 
"Velvety place where you don't yet remember what you dreamed." Secret Life Of Bees p. 174
"Women made the best bee keepers 'cause they have a special ability built into them to love creatures that sting." Secret Life Of Bees p. 144
eXcessive work had finally caught up with them." Secret Life Of Bees p. 147
"You gotta imagine what's never been." p.121 "You have to find a mother inside yourself. We all do. Even if we already have a mother..." Secret Life Of Bees  p. 288
"Zach showed up with the prettiest notebook -- green with rosebuds on the cover... That's when I knew I would never find a better firend than Zachary Taylor." ~ Secret Life Of Bees p. 134-5

July 3 - Best part of your day (2012 - updated 9/16/23)

Appreciating Arboretum
Best thing about my day? Blogging about all of it with gratitude
Cartwheels
Dreaming of a Downpour, please....
Every day has "best" parts. “Each day is filled with little pieces of heaven. We do not need to seek them out. If we are attentive, they will reveal themselves to us.”~ Mary Anne Byrne
Friendship
Grace
Hummingbird's lingering morning visit, and this Hibiscus
It is only in the mysterious equations of love that any logic or reasons can be found." ~
John Nash
Kindred spirits
Lunch with a dear friend
"My quest has taken me through the physical, the Metaphysical, the delusional -- and back.
And I have made the most important discovery of my career, the most important discovery of my life..." ~ John Nash Source 
"No coward soul is mine / No trembler in the world's storm-troubled sphere / I see Heaven's glories shine / And Faith shines equal arming me from Fear." ~ Emily Brontë
Open heart
Plants around the library
Quest... through the physcial, the metaphysical, the delusional -- and back
Returning home after work...Sign on the wall... This!
"You are the reason I am. You are all my reasons." Source 

All We Need To Do...

 and...
Bake, and "Be the hero of your own life." ~ Nim's Island
Cookies, sometimes, like today (9/10/23), peanut butter
Do what must be Done but...
e.e. cummings ~ "The eyes of my eyes are opened."
For millions of years, mankind lived just like the animals. Then something happened which unleashed the power of our imagination. We learned to talk and we learned to listen. Speech has allowed the communication of ideas, enabling human beings to work together to build the impossible. Mankind's greatest achievements have come about by talking, and its greatest failures by not talking. It doesn't have to be like this. Our greatest hopes could become reality in the future. With the technology at our disposal, the possibilities are unbounded. All we need to do is make sure we keep talking.”
― Stephen Hawking
Gratitude: Awakening the Heart
Hopes could become reality in the future...
"I Melt With You" by Modern English made me think of Christine so I sent it to her and she sent...
Josie age 2 months + 6 days
"Keep Talking" by Pink Floyd
Listen: Learn to Listen
Movie with my (then) fifteen year old (Jan 13, 2012)
Nim's Island: "Be the hero of your own life."
Observations
Panegyric: a eulogistic oration or writing; formal or elaborate praise
"Quintessential coastal vibes"
Resting and Reading...
Taylor Swift's "Fifteen"
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